About A Boy (Film)
Author: James Murkett
Keywords: relationships, family, commitment, selfishness, shallowness, morality, truth
Book title: About a Boy
Author: Nick Hornby
Publisher: Indigo
Publication Date: 1998
Film title: About a Boy
Tagline(s): Growing up has nothing to do with age
Director: Chris Weitz, Paul Weitz
Screenplay: Peter Hedges based on the novel by Nick Hornby
Starring: Hugh Grant, Toni Collette, Nicholas Hoult, Rachel Weisz, Victoria Smurfit
Cinema Release Date: 2002
DVD Distributor: Vision Video (UK); Universal Studios (USA)
DVD Release date: 02 December 2002 (UK); 14 January 2003 (USA)
Certificate: 12 (UK); PG-13 (USA)
NB. There are significant differences (in the content and underlying message) between this film and the book on which it is based. You will find it helpful to look at a study guide on the book and an article on the book. See links at the bottom of this page. Summary
Will (Grant) is a 38-year-old single man who spends his days watching TV, playing snooker, buying CDs and having his hair manicured. He describes himself as an island, complete in himself: 'I like to think I'm Ibiza'. In an attempt to meet available single women he creates a fictional son so he can attend a single parent group. He is content with his life, and aware of its shallowness. This status is threatened when he meets Marcus (Hoult) - a 12 year old with a troubled family background - who finds it hard to be accepted as he is bullied at school: 'I just didn't fit'.
Through the film Will and Marcus develop a complex relationship with beneficial results for both of them - Will improves Marcus' fashion credibility: 'He knows what kids need'; while Marcus prompts Will to be less self-centred, giving him a chance of redemption: 'This was definitely not island living'. Will is forced to admit the shallowness of his life: 'I am blank. I'm really nothing'. The film explores the nature of relationships - where Marcus and Will learn similar lessons - with Marcus coming to the conclusion: 'I don't think couples are the future, you need more than that, you need back-up'.
Background
About a Boy is an adaptation from the book of the same name by Nick Hornby, although changes have been made to the story. The title was a take on the Nirvana track
About a Girl (The Guardian, April 26, 2002). Nick Hornby was born in 1957, studied English at Cambridge and is a former teacher who has established himself as a very popular and influential novelist. He has a son and is separated from his wife. His other works include
High Fidelity, Fever Pitch (both adapted for film) and
How to be Good, which made the 2001 Booker long-list.
This film comes from the makers of
Bridget Jones's Diary and the directors of teen-comedy
American Pie. The soundtrack was recorded by
Badly Drawn Boy (Damon Gough) and the title track has received extensive radio airplay.
Questions
- Did you like the film? Why?
- Have you read the book? If so, did you prefer the book or the film?
- Who is the 'boy' the film is about? Why?
- How did you react to Will? Did your impression change through the film?
- How do the characters develop through the film?
- What 'moral code' does each of the characters follow?
- What are the parallels between Will and Marcus in the film? What do you think this means?
- Did Will or Marcus have the biggest influence on the other? Why?
- What model of relationships does the film appear to be promoting?
- What conclusion does Marcus come to about relationships? Is this positive or negative?
- What conclusion does Will come to about the state of his life in the film? Do you think this a common experience?
- What is Will's main problem?
- What is said about the need to help others in charity?
- What does the film say about 'fitting in'? How is this done?
- What part does 'truth' play in the film? Which characters value it most? Why?
- How do the concepts of love and commitment seen in the film compare and contrast with those expressed in the Bible?
- What would you say to people who have come to the same conclusion as Marcus?
- 'I increasingly see the truth that what you really need is friends and family and all these corny things' (Hugh Grant, Empire Magazine, May 2002). Do you think this is a common view in society? Do you agree? What would you say is missing from this list?
- 'Ultimately, you have to settle down. And I worry that I've made the wrong choice being unmarked and without a family. Although I take satisfaction from the hugely prevalent failures of my friends' marriages. Ninety-five per cent them have f***ed up now. That is a great comfort' (Hugh Grant, Empire Magazine, May 2002). How is this view seen in About a Boy?
- What do your friends think about marriage? How does it compare with a Christian view on the role of marriage?
- 'I've always regarded it as the height of hypocrisy for anyone to try and bluster on moral grounds because I believe that everyone's a dirty beast' (Hugh Grant, Empire Magazine, May 2002). Is there any truth in this statement?